Re: Is my wife a 6 or a 9


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Posted by Claudia on June 24, 1998 at 19:27:34:

In Reply to: Re: Is my wife a 6 or a 9 posted by Bonehead on June 23, 1998 at 17:38:20:

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: : You said that the RHETI typed her as 2, followed by 9 and 6. Why do you
: : think she's not a 2?

: She doesn't seem to be manipulative in the way I've read 2's are. She has a degree in social work and worked in that field before getting overloaded by the administration and a bad supervisor who she couldn't get along with. She has worked as an interior decorator, a massage therapist, and is presently doing a great job raising our 2 children. She loves dealing with people and needs social contact, but feels drained by people's diffefences and narrow mindedness. She gets along with most people and peolple seek her out as a natural "wise woman". In our relationship dhe feels a strong sense of union and toatal acceptance, the 2 become 1 thing is a reality with her. Now with 2 kids, it's 4 are 1. But, she is such a nit-picking negotitor, especially when buying a car, hiring a contractor, etc.., she gets so focused on the small points she loses the big picture.
Hi Bonehead,
I always try to check the stress point and the heartspace out, if the personality fixation is not clear.
2 goes into 8 in stress and into 4 in heartspace. Does your wife do that ?
Check out if she yells, is very bossy in stress and also very creative and romantic in her heartspace - then she may be a two. (with a 1 wing perhaps)

6 goes into 3 in stress (image and hard work - career) and into 9 in the heartspace.
9 goes into 6 in stress (fears, paranoia) and into 3 in the heartspace (out of being a sleepyhead into hard working person).

She seems far too busy to be a nine - nines are lethargic and love to lay around and sleep - inertia is their trait.

Hope that gives you more input to type your better half. - btw - what are you ?
Regards, Claudia (4w5)


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