Re: Enneatype: Defense Mechanism?

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: : **********Sorry - I have no idea why I wrote left-brained. I meant right brained. My husband and I are constantly having misunderstandings. But there's a common thread of romanticizing things - more like western style than romeo & juliet, (example: when we sign cards, he's Desperado and I'm Queen of Hearts) and we have the same tastes in movies, music, shows, sports, etc. We're both X-file fans, we love action or intense movies (DieHard, Lethal Weapon, etc.) we like watching the nature channel, and would rather watch gymnastics or individual sports than team sports. We still love the old Bon Jovi songs, Cougar songs, Skynnyrd, etc. I love Chopin only when I'm playing the piano - not to listen to. And I have a streak of aggressiveness in me - not assertive aggressiveness like him, but even when I was young (first grade) I remember having fantasies about fighting the kids who were beating up my older brother. : : As far as my eyes - when I was thinking about what you wrote - my eyes went up and to the right. Bingo. When I'm talking to someone who's personality is much like mine, my eyes do shift sometimes and I find it hard to concentrate on making eye contact. Do you write ?(poems, stories, etc.) : Speaking right do makes more sense ! : Between the lines...INFJ. So I can understand your fantasies about getting : revenge. I guess we are different there, I would have done it, no matter : if it hurted myself. When I put myself to something there's no way back. : Away from that...:) : I can see why you are having misundertanding. Your soulmate is the ENFP. : So since he is the shadow of the ENFP, it becomes quite dramatic, perfect : for a four. He is your mirror (changing the two letters in the middle) : oposite representing a lot of 1, 6 and 8 energy, I guess. : In a strange bizarre way you can se a lot of yourself in him. : Some of the reason your IN makes your eyes dance (when talkings to other IN-s) : , is that you speak the same "language" inspiring eathhothers (I cant get : that fucking word right now, not the only fault, I can see when I write wrong : but I need to try and see to correct and that takes time...:) creativety, or in other words intuision. : One woman (INFJ) say's if she should understand written material (talking : theories), it must inspire inner pictures. There is one thing that's quite : funny. When I talk to her it happens a strange kind of electricity, : making things on the limit to overintense. I am an ENTP not ENFP, : but that's what it's like to talk to someone with a nearly inverted : preference order. The main thing is that if you are f.x : a nine (jungian introverted feeling-my belif) and talks to a two (jungian : exstroverted feeling), it happens a strange kind of electricety that : certainly explains all the 2-9 relationships. : You wonder if I write, and I don't. I have no passion for life for the : moment, meaning there's nothing to write about. : Other people may have this passion , like you ? And write ? : Most people don't do what they talent, because it's to easy... : That could be the reason there is so few Shakespares. : I hope you aren't a nurse (with potensial) as the INFJ I wrote about. : Really tried to motivate her to start writing, but beeing an INFJ and only : writing beatiful homemade post card's isn't good enough the way I see it.p : What's it gonna bring ? No, the world is very destructed, and I think the : best time to do is moving away, and enjoy our planet before all rainforrest : are gone. The way I see it time nothing. We are only a small drum-hit : of (opening my dictionary) ethernity. Do we really exist. : Is this real ? Are I really sitting here writing shit ? : Some say's we are given this planet : from God. Sorry, but I either disbelive or belive that, so my faith are : no faith. : This life we are given is a exellent oppertunety to get happyness, so I see : no reason why we all should sit unhappy around our computers. : Pretty soon I am going to try to get away and go search for this happyness. : Most people just goes one with their stupid jobs, doing nothing that's : really important. : Some just flip's around trying to "save" us from the more and more : materialised society we are living in and make the world a better place. : Then I wonder, what is there to be saved ? What's the difference ? : It could be that our destiny is destruction. : Do I belive in destiny ? : No ! But who cares... : Same for us as for the : dinosaur's. Again we are just a click in time, or just a dream some : mud filled alien are having right now. : So again, I say: Live life to the fullest eatch day. : Leave your fucking job, take the chance and experience what you can't : do later. : For me this would be to find the most beatiful (green, untotched) place on earth and live : happely as in the adventures. : (Bad mood now, if you have read all this bull**** that my mind or some : dead drunk gamblers fantazy came up with I have to congratulate you, : you might be inside my head and I might be a luni...:)

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