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Re: further clarfiication
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Posted by Perciever on March 30, 2000 at 22:24:17:
In Reply to: Re: New perspective on ones posted by Perciever on March 30, 2000 at 22:19:03:
This is more pronounced when a one is in the rigid
state of the rigid/relaxed dichotomy. I hope everyone knows their type dichotomies. Your
understanding is handicapped without it. > I had somewhat idealised ones in the past. Not to be a negative person but
> ones can be quite emotionally cold and judgemental.
> This reads as social inenptatude. Actually it works against a one to be
> so tight. Clearly they cannot think clearly or truly understand a situation like that.
> Let me clarify this applies to average and unhealthy ones
> > In psycology ego means that component of our psyches which defines who we are as individuals.
> > In ennea language the types most associated with ego are 3 7 8. > > However if our type fixation becomes pronounced we may identify with it and cling to it with an iron
> > grip. We define ourselves by it, therby becoming our ego fixation. > > I was just in a meeting with a woman who was gripping so hard to her 1w2 fixations she lost her case.
> > Ironically she offended another 1w2 woman who has problems with ego fixation. > > Fortunately I recognized this and did not cling to my reactive fears. I stayed objective in service of the
> > truth and reality of the situation. Therefore I won. Justice won. That is whats important.
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