Re: New perspective on ones

Posted by lydia on April 01, 2000 at 19:08:48:

In Reply to: Re: New perspective on ones posted by Perciever on March 30, 2000 at 22:19:03:

> I had somewhat idealised ones in the past. Not to be a negative person but
> ones can be quite emotionally cold and judgemental.
> This reads as social inenptatude. Actually it works against a one to be
> so tight. Clearly they cannot think clearly or truly understand a situation like that.
> Let me clarify this applies to average and unhealthy ones

> > In psycology ego means that component of our psyches which defines who we are as individuals.

> > In ennea language the types most associated with ego are 3 7 8.

> > However if our type fixation becomes pronounced we may identify with it and cling to it with an iron
> > grip. We define ourselves by it, therby becoming our ego fixation.

> > I was just in a meeting with a woman who was gripping so hard to her 1w2 fixations she lost her case.
> > Ironically she offended another 1w2 woman who has problems with ego fixation.

> > Fortunately I recognized this and did not cling to my reactive fears. I stayed objective in service of the
> > truth and reality of the situation. Therefore I won. Justice won. That is whats important.

I have a family member who is like that. i think she may be a 9 though. It's frustrating when she just wont let go of her ideas, she dismisses everyone else's ideas but can give no reason for doing it. She'll just say for example "NO, that cant be right" Don't ask her why unless you want to be yelled at! She is fast to trust TV or any book she reads, so if through one of them she finds that she was wrong about something after all, out comes an excuse, she manipulates her words so that she was only half wrong. It's as close to lying as you can get without flat out lying. I just keep quite around her to avoid disputes, she is my grandma.

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