Posted by Historian on April 27, 2000 at 12:37:41:
In Reply to: Dear Male Chauvenists! posted by Topsss on April 27, 2000 at 09:05:21:
> > Over 40% of women say they are "totally uninterested in sex" and never have any, or look for any. Only 7% of men are the same.
> OK, I have some statistics for you:
> 99% of men see all women as little prostitutes thus putting them under a lot of pressure as to express their sexuality.
> > Look on the 4-board, most of the females are virgins, and proud of it. They could all get sex tomorrow, but don't.
> The gals on the 4-board are mostly composed of females who are seeking help one way or the other. They are not representative of women in general. Besides, refer to my comment above as to intimidation.
> > Compare and contrast with most of us males, who get it when we can.
> > Ask any marriage counsellor, over 95% of the time in loss-of-desire cases, it's the wife who doesn't want it.
> Those husbands get stimulated by some chick at work and start dreaming about her instead of paying attention to wives' desires. Those poor souls also want to be stroked and pampered *all the time* by their wives the same way they were treated by their mothers. Tough luck! The wife gets pissed off sooner or later.
> Men search for geishas. Tough luck again! Go to Japan or Thailand for that. But of course the geisha you bring back from the Far East might turn out to be Yoko Ono in the long run!
> > It may not apply to you, but out there, women want to have sexual intercourse a helluva lot less than men.
>
> Oh really? I thought men could have problems with...aaahh...with...you know what I mean...with getting it up sooner or later. A woman is a woman, always.
> TOPSSS always!
> >
> > > NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!! Sorry to butt in to your conversation, I need to have my say here!
> > > Can I just say that the thing that makes me angriest about all of those men who can't confine their desire, loyalty, time to one woman, is that every time I have been "cheated on" it's by some asshole who wasn't keeping me satisfied in the first place.
> > > I do not believe for a second that men have a higher sex drive than women and I've slept with enough of the bastards to have a fair measure of the community at large (so to speak, sorry couldn't resist).
> > > I would be more than happy with a couple of times a day. The thing that hurts the most is when you know you've been in your bed alone, wishing that he was there with you, and you find out that he was off porking someone else. GRRRRRRR!!!!! That hurts SO MUCH.
> > > And as for the other stuff that women want in men...a good brain, some social skills and ability to pay his own way, and maybe even occasionally treat you to a night out without thinking that he deserves to be nominated for a knighthood is good. Chivalry without condescension.
> > > Be friendly, think about making one woman REALLY happy instead of a whole bunch of women unhappy and treat a date the way you'd treat your friends. Is that really so hard?