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Enneagram Main Board Archive Cory`s DilemmaPosted by Morheus on April 27, 2000 at 16:30:23:
Your4 problem and its answer was inherent in your prose; what I mean by that I will share with you momentarily...but first, concerning the bodacious chick with the neanderthal.I remember that guy who presented himself as a peace/love/naturalist 30 years ago; ultimately killed his girlfriend( complete control freak) and kept her in a locked chest for over a year; then escaped to France...anyway, when this homely little miscreant was questiuoned as tyo why he had such luck with getting such beautiful women , he replied matter `o factly, because he knew just how insecure ALL women were...and he gave them what they wanted which was security i.e. endless compliments. Unfortunately, I believe you,Cory, to be way to honest of a person to lower yourself to that level of sycophancy: blowing smoke up a woman`s hynie so she will fall on her back and count ceiling tiles as you "do your manly business". The other thing that is important to remember is the old axiom: water seeks its own level. Beauty really is irrelevant in terms of substance. The majority of "pretty" ladies are all so often entirely vapid between the ears. Case in point are the models( all 7`s) who , other than projecting the affectations, the form , are absolutely meaningless in substance. My point to you, lizard-king, is this: by and large, you would never,NEVER, be content with vapidity. My advise: ( like the old song says) To be happy for the rest of your life, make an ugly woman your wife....they will shower you with gratitude; and not interrupt your conversations.( only, partially, kidding about that) Now, as to how you can score,possibly, getting a woman of depth and beauty:Go to where you can express your strengths. You are a brilliant social satirist. Although you are expending alot of energy on htis chat board...( and I have thought about this before) I consider this time, time that you have been honing your craft. Sometime you have got to have the faith in your abilities to "GO FOR IT!" First, perhaps, with some other writers in small groups in your area; I realize , at your age, you may have a great deal of trepidation, but ultimately, you have got to realize there ain`t that many that can write at your level of satire. I think you`re brilliant...and that is saying alot...because I thought I was the only one I would ever use that phrase on. And that , ultimately, ties in how Cory will lose his sweet virginity without feeling like a soiled fool: Some beautiful, but introverted young lady will be at one of those writer sessions, sharing her fragile poetic lines and will be so amazed at your level of accomplishment...she will seek you out; then ,VOILA!...Luck , Chance, Predestination...those are mere terms for two kindred spirits finding eachother in this wounded world. Best to you, Lizard King.
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