Fourth borns

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> The Catholic families of a few generations ago were typically large with four or more children. > Where I live the Mormons encourage large families. > Of course the motive is largely based upon the biblical passage 'go forth and replentish the earth'. > Most modern industrialized countries now recognizing the serious impact of overpopulation, covertly and even overtly discourage large families. Not to mention single taxpayers such as myself must bear the burden of couples reproducing like insects and small rodents. > Nevertheless all people are beautiful and have a right to live a fulfilling life. > Now, on to fourth borns. > Felt challenge - being excluded by the > third born > Solution - dont listen to self > bad feeling - anger > felt loss - belonging > justice - not justice exists; one must get even > thinking - analyze things from every angle > emotional dichotomy - empathy/anger > anger source = being blamed > Humor - insults suggesting stupidity, lazyness > Relates by - entertaining others with witty > expressions > Relational problem - trapped by others feelings > Procrastination - puts off tasks to spite others > Blind spot - inability to trust others > Boundaries - no respect for others boundaries > strict boundaries for self > Strengths - thinking, understanding , ambition > Love - giving > Listens by - listens only to self or other, not > both at same time > Well developed fourth borns become very expert, knowledgeable in their professions. They deal with feeling not enough was left for them (being on bottom of family order). Most fourths I;ve known are in the human need triad 2-7-9

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