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Enneagram Main Board Archive THANK GOODNESS someone can help me!Posted by Katie on May 31, 2000 at 18:24:03: In Reply to: Re: The opinions of 2's about fours posted by fwrchild on May 31, 2000 at 14:59:46: This two and me are having some problems. If you can point out where I may be doing something wrong, what I should do or have any insight at all, I would really appreciate it. So this two (who's name is Texanna) and me (Katie) are having the following difficulties: -Right now Texanna is in the semi-relationship with Joe. Joe (an 8) may not necessarily call for a week or two on end. When he doesn't call shes is in the absolute worst mood ever. She calls my sister and I lazy brats, shes yells and is in a general bad mood. When Joe does call she's nice and liveable in general. What do I do? Am I doing something wrong here? -Also, when Joe does call Tex and they have a fight, guess who hears about it? One minute shes depressed cause of whatever he did and the next minute shes furious. However, she won't confront Joe about what's bothering her. My sister and I say to confront him and that any reasonable person would confront the guy since she deserves to be treated better. Or she at least deserves an explanation for what happened. We've tried to talk to her but it doesn't work. All I want is for her to take care of her feelings and not take them out on my sister and I. What do I do? -There are a few other things that bother me but don't really affect me. For example, the endless jealousy she feels whenever she hears about ever talking about another girl and not if its someone she flirted with but if he just spoke briefly with a female (where there was no flirting or anything involved). Thanx for listening since I'm fed up with Texanna and Joe,
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