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Enneagram Main Board Archive Re: =o(Posted by heatherb on June 01, 2000 at 06:57:24: In Reply to: =o( posted by Emily on June 01, 2000 at 06:20:34:
> >Why do you want everyone to know how great you are in bed? Or CAN be in bed...? > We always post our results on here, Heather. =o( Just 'cause you didn't want to share doesn't mean other people can't, and that it's wrong if they do. > "I think you really like people to think and know that you are very un-inhibited and love sex... I think it's also a way for you to make yourself stand out, and kind of break any pre-conceived notion people might have of you, like to think, 'wow, Emily, that sweet girl, such an animal in bed!'" -you > That makes me want to cry. =o\ One of the things that hurts me the most, that has Always hurted me the most, is when people think they know how I am feeling or what I am thinking. I've posted about this multiple times. My mom used to do it to me when I was little. And I don't think anyone around here sees me as "sweet" and "innocent". It was a fun, little test, and I shared my results. There's no underlying psychological meaning to me posting something so silly. Even if I would have gotten any other score I would have posted. > > =o(
I didn't mean to say that I know how you are feeling or thinking!! I just posted without thinking twice... I was wondering, curious... because I was more speaking for myself than of you -- and was kind of just wondering if maybe you were a bit like me. I was not judging you, and never said it was wrong to post your results... :( In my post I was trying say that the way *I* am is to kind of want people to know about my "other" side, to not think that they know what I'm like, just be what I seem like... I just can't express myself well. I realize, that especially the first part of my post came across kind of cold. I didn't mean it that way. I'm really sorry Emily, because I didn't mean to say anything to hurt you. heatherb
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