Re: Wasting your reeking breath - save it. We can all do what we please.


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Posted by Derf on September 18, 1998 at 17:12:51:

In Reply to: Re: Wasting your reeking breath - save it. We can all do what we please. posted by Off-Liner on September 18, 1998 at 16:41:00:

: : In that case, dear --

: I made a bet that I can make you say me "dear". You did that always when you
: got provoked - two years ago.

You're just making that up, hot shot.

: You are the only "member" who still is here.
: Usually it takes 6 months to burn out. Are the others "integrated" out of
: here?

No. They just decided they were not Derf.

: Tell me your story, Fred. Is this the only place where you can excel?

Since I love the subject so, maybe I'll choose to excel in it one day. For now, I'm just an amateur, and this is just a hobby.

: Maybe it would be too much for you to get to know some enneagram teachers
: - like you yourself.

I'll go to that stage when I decide it's worth it. For now, the books are enough (but they don't excite me like they used to - like I said, I'm getting there).

: :-- your workshops are scabby, flaky, inconsequential, and too conceited
: :for their own phony-intellectual good... and I take great pride in
: :admitting I have no associations with them.

: Neither have I. I've got some 40 books about the subject. But nothing else.
: Let's take the (twoish) pride together!

You described their behavior as rather rude an intellectually snotty. What's there not to like about that?

: :Good riddance! Eighty percent of the stuff on this board is a waste of
: :time? Funny, I was thinking that the same percentage was honest and
: :searching - the product of inspired persons.

: I agree. The same percentage is HONEST and SEARCHING and the persons
: are O.K. in every sense. But they have no contribution to the enneagram.
: In oral tradition workshops some introspective persons tell the audience
: what is it like to be a certain type: what, how, when and WHY. Everything
: goes backwards here! Some poor innocent beginner asks who she or he is -
: and then you and your collegues give her/him a lecture. "Inspiring" indeed!
: The message board idea does not work properly in this context.

I don't know about you, but I've learned plenty on this board. The revelation via. introspection you apparently seek is here - and that's exactly what I'm looking for, too!

And I've never outrightly told anyone what their type is (have I come close? I dunno). Basically, I've just shared what I knew about people as they relate to this system, and experienced tremendous growth in this area of understanding. My goal is to understand human nature, not to make a (choose one: big shot, teacher, stand-up comedian) out of myself.

: :Why on Earth are you "still present?"

: I gave you something to grip!

: To answer your question, I'm exercising my english. It's in a poor state
: and it needs practising. The story is longer, but I don't want to bore you.

: I respect you and others, but "kisses and love" style is not for me.
: You and many others are working anonymously - so you want to be the
: target. Those who have a REAL e-mail address with their postings
: are REAL personalities. Others are just "no ones" and deserve a few
: tackles, if possible.

Oh, I used to leave my e-mail address all right. But only once in a great while did I get any e-mail from anyone here. Just 20 spams every day from adversiters who use "e-mail web search" scripts. So I stopped. Is that a satisfactory justification?

: Just a couple a weeks ago it was published a study which revealed that
: WWW makes the surfers depressed. No wonder, if you are looking support
: without name and identity.

I spend less than an hour a day doing this WWW stuff. I check this page and a few others of my interest, but that's all. Is that hard to believe? You thought I practically lived on the web, didn't you? This is probably the only page I've consistently visited for so long, besides news sites. In a way, it's a kind of news site - news about introspection and soul searching, courtesy of a few interested parties.

: The "oral tradition and wasting time" is not my idea. I have copied it,
: because it makes sense to me.

I don't really know what the "oral tradition" is all about. But maybe I'll get into that. And maybe we'll meet there, and get into a few delicious arguments. Until then....

: That's it. Thanks for your respond.

Ditto.

: Off-Liner (visitor)

-You know who (I will never integrate out of this).



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