Re: Do type 4s really want to fit in or be different?

Posted by Madeleine on August 20, 1998 at 18:41:54:

In Reply to: Do type 4s really want to fit in or be different? posted by micki on February 28, 1998 at 09:20:32:

: I have a friend who is a 4 (I think with 3 wing). She just learned about
: the enneagram and was amazed how the profile of a 4 fit her so perfectly.
: She just called me asking " But when I'm with people, I notice how much
: I try to fit in or belong, not try to be different." I said that maybe it
: is a subconscious thing. In most ways, she is EXACTLY like a 4.

: Does anyone have any insight into this issue? Thanks.

I'm a four. I find that I look for commonalities with others I meet. It helps me feel not so alone. =)

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