Posted by Ann on August 30, 1998 at 14:03:12:
In Reply to: Re: Emotional honesty & E1s posted by Christy on August 28, 1998 at 12:54:12:
Hal and Christy,
I'm 15, and I'm having a similar relationship with my mother as both of you described with your parents. The difference is, I can't get out. My mother is always there, looking over my shoulder, speaking loudly, worrying continuously, prying, always trying to control, and, ultimately, steadfastly believing that she is RIGHT. There is also a lack of recognition for the emotions of others (the rest of her family). I'm not positive she is a one, both of her daughters are 4's (myself and my sister, who is 25). My sister also experienced all of these problems. She is still financially dependant on the family and so finds it impossible to break away herself. Her health also suffers in the house that seems so overwhelmed with negative energy from my mother. What can I do?