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Enneagram Main Board Archive Re: ParentsPosted by cj on March 29, 2001 at 09:22:43: In Reply to: Parents posted by Elizabeth on March 29, 2001 at 00:54:33: Mother a 7w8, my brother, sister and I refer to her as "the jackal that gave birth to us"...totally self-centered, egotistical, and HARD. No idea why she should give birth to three children. No interest whatsoever in raising them. Made us feel that we were a huge inconvenience and imposition on her time, resources, the cocktail party that was always happening around her. I have no respect for her mothering, or much at all for her as a person. She is shallow, judgemental, mean, materialistic, but also quite funny and intelligent. A fun person to have a martini with, and that's about it. Father a 1, no idea about wings. Also a terrible parent. Neglected/abused my brother and sister, doted on me. Died when I was 16. Sister who is 6w5 basically raised me and my brother. She did as much as she could, which isn't a lot when the kids you're raising aren't your own. We are very close.
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