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4s, 9s and abandonment

Posted by Bigby on March 30, 2001 at 08:15:18:

Both 4 and 9 have abandonment issues stemming from childhood, right?
I would like to get people's insight on how these two developments are different

Thanks
Bigby

Short answer Elizabeth 23:02:47 03/31/01 (4)
- Re: Short answer janis 18:58:48 04/02/01 (3)
  - Re: Short answer Elizabeth 21:22:10 04/02/01 (1)
    - Re: Short answer janis 10:45:43 04/03/01 (0)
  - Small Diversion froggyTheFrog 20:52:42 04/02/01 (0)
Re: 4s, 9s and abandonment Riv 04:25:51 03/31/01 (4)
- Fours suffer more! Nines manage to aneasthetise themselves. nt. Tiggy 17:54:11 03/31/01 (0)
- Re: 4s, 9s and abandonment froggyTheFrog 11:02:35 03/31/01 (2)
  - Re: 4s, 9s and abandonment Riv 13:20:05 04/01/01 (1)
    - 4s are more aware of their emotions -> will display their emotions more. froggyTheFrog 21:30:55 04/01/01 (0)
Re: 4s, 9s and abandonment RoTtEn ApPlE 19:24:41 03/30/01 (0)
Re: 4s, 9s and abandonment Tiggy 14:26:01 03/30/01 (0)
Re: 4s, 9s and abandonment Tuppence 14:24:52 03/30/01 (7)
- Re: 4s, 9s and abandonment Blah 16:15:33 03/30/01 (1)
  - As one who's tried both, I'd recommend the g and t. nt Tiggy 19:34:06 03/30/01 (0)
- Strange interpretation Tiggy 14:29:32 03/30/01 (4)
  - Well, how about....blah, blah Tuppence 18:41:02 03/30/01 (3)
    - "All at once" phenomenon Cory 22:34:33 03/30/01 (1)
      - Synchronicity: it's aura-full! Sarah N. Dippity (no T, no A) 00:36:15 03/31/01 (0)
    - Thankyou. Yes, gin and tonics do ease the anxiety. nt Tiggy 19:33:07 03/30/01 (0)
Bigby . 11:48:53 03/30/01 (1)
- . Bigby 11:55:03 03/30/01 (0)