Posted by Elizabeth on March 31, 2001 at 23:02:47:
In Reply to: 4s, 9s and abandonment posted by Bigby on March 30, 2001 at 08:15:18:
I have written a fair amount fours as the abandoned oral character below.
Nines are the symbiotic character. Basically, they have what fours long for--> the comfort, warmth, nurturance, and protection of the 'mother'. Developmentally a child is supposed to bond and then separate, forming a sense of self apart from the 'other'. Nines are very comfortable in their merged state. They do not fear abandonment; they fear differentiation.