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Re: Loving & Living with a four


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Posted by John DiFool (4w5) on November 22, 1997 at 19:47:05:

In Reply to: Loving & Living with a four posted by Angela Lee on November 22, 1997 at 18:06:45:

: Hello, I've been reading the Enneagram and extremely interested with it for the past six yrs. My spouse is a four and he has no interest in it, I love him and our child with all of my heart but I sometimes find it hard to deal with his four personality type with which he does not want face.I feel if he would just read the enneagram he could see some of the silly ways that he reacts,does, thinks and says, just as I have . The enneagram has helped me to face who I am and how to work with my compulsive behaviours
: If you have any info on how I can get him interested let me in on it.
: Angela Lee {one}

It is basically up to him; whenever he is ready to take a good
honest look at himself, he will, but not before: you can't rush things.
I tried giving my dad (a prototypical One if there ever was One) his profile
but he never took a good, hard look at it.
Now, if you want a Four's perspective on your relationship, feel free to
ask away! ;)

---John DiFool



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