Posted by claire on October 06, 1998 at 00:38:59:
In Reply to: Re: Loving & Living with a four posted by Jordan on August 25, 1998 at 00:50:20:
: : : Hello, I've been reading the Enneagram and extremely interested with it for the past six yrs. My spouse is a four and he has no interest in it, I love him and our child with all of my heart but I sometimes find it hard to deal with his four personality type with which he does not want face.I feel if he would just read the enneagram he could see some of the silly ways that he reacts,does, thinks and says, just as I have . The enneagram has helped me to face who I am and how to work with my compulsive behaviours : : If you have any info on how I can get him interested let me in on it.: : Angela Lee {one}Dear Angela Lee (One),As a one to a one, let me give you this piece of advice. Leave him alone. Forget about interesting him in the enneagram. He is not going to become perfect for you just because he MIGHT take an interest in what you are interested in. Use your enneagram information to work on yourself, not him. Any "resentment" you develop will make the situation worse. Good luck.....work away.....on yourself. Love and light, Claire