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Enneagram Main Board Archive Re: Question For Dave, Mykl, and interested othersPosted by Hal on October 26, 1998 at 12:55:18: In Reply to: Re: Question For Dave, Mykl, and interested others posted by Worried on October 25, 1998 at 20:40:51:
: : Thanks to Dave and Mykl for the advice. I'm going to wait a bit before approaching my friend - he's travelling in a few days. If you have any more to say I'm listening! As an aside, all types have opposing views pulling us in different directions at the same time. We are all walking paradoxes. That's what's so brilliant and natural about the way the Enneagram is set up, with the various connections between different points. Sorry this doesn't help you with the immediate problem, but I'm also a 4 with very little positive experience dealing with 8's. The advice given so far is good. The important thing for a 4 is to take the anger and criticism for what it is. While it is personal, it is about your actions, not your innermost self. Just because someone's angry at you doesn't mean you're a terrible person. - Hal -
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