Posted by Dave on October 26, 1998 at 13:49:56:
In Reply to: Re: Question For Dave, Mykl, and interested others posted by Hal on October 26, 1998 at 12:55:18:
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: The important thing for a 4 is to take the anger and criticism for what it is.
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As an 8 friend told me one time after a blow up and what I thought was an overreaction, "Don't take any of this personally. I just have to let loose my anger and I come on too strong sometimes.".
Point: 8's anger toward you IS NOT PERSONAL most of the time. They like to test people to see if they can handle them (the 8).