Posted by Bartholomew (63.214.75.15) on April 28, 2002 at 10:36:57:
In Reply to: Re: Trust posted by KJ Always (209.214.12.10) on April 28, 2002 at 00:40:16:
> Hi Bartholomew and other Enneagram Enthusiasts! I think the answer to that is Enneatype 9, atleast, outwardly they are the most relaxed socially. Do you agree?
Sort of. In my opinion, nines have a lot of repressed anxiety. Conflict really worries them. I think it's kind of a toss-up between nines and twos.
> I think people who are relaxed and trusting, I am sure some of them are aware enough to know when it is time to set boundaries, which is used in place of putting up your guards. Balanced or healthy Trusting people have a good sense of boundaries, wouldn't you agree? What do you think? What type are you, Bartholomew? You are a fascinating person. Ha, ha, ha.
No, people who trust completely have no sense of boundaries. They're total wrecks, subject to whatever comes their way. A "boundary" IS a distrust; it IS a "putting up of one's guard." Of course, people who distrust completely are also total wrecks, because they distrust what might help them.
I'm a 17-year-old 6w5.