Posted by KJ Always (209.214.15.147) on April 29, 2002 at 00:06:06:
In Reply to: Re: Trust posted by Sharlee (203.45.206.21) on April 28, 2002 at 08:22:40:
> > > What type do you think is most relaxed, in general?
> ### No contest. A 9 I agree. And the least relaxed? Type 6's with their trust issues and contrary minds, in my opinion. Sharlee
Sharlee and Froggy the Frog, I agree with both of you very much so about the 9!
Sherlee and Froggy, I agree!!!
My friend who is a 6w7 is the least relaxed personality type that I do. I struggle sometimes dealing with her contrary mind and trust issues about things that don't look like it is worth for me to give a second thought to. One Christmas day, we were in Sub Restaurant, she was cautious of the male stranger that came in and did not trust him to feel safe around him, but I talked to him and did not think about if he is dangerous or not. He looks like someone who is alone on Christmas who came in to eat like anybody else.
He did not come to sit with us or anything like that. He sat at another table being to himself, somewhat. He have not did anything out of the ordinary, except me a stranger that did not have a positive attitude. What do you expect, he was alone on Christmas in a restaurant eating his meal.
My friend was not rude to him or anything like that. She was just guarded, polite and quiet (reserve). Does this sounds familiar to you guys about Enneatype 6? My friend consider it to be a genuis gift because I can be relaxed and comfortable with people on a social level. We have conflicts over this sometimes. Sharlee, you described her perfectly: trust issues and contrary minds! She is sweet in spite of it!
KJ Always