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Re: 3 wing taking control

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Posted by DEECEE on February 25, 1999 at 21:09:16:

In Reply to: 3 wing taking control posted by Christy on February 25, 1999 at 08:22:18:

> I've had a major insight into myself lately that I wanted to share-

> I've been using my 3 wing to consort socially - "acting" like the people I'm around. Example: I've been having problems with aggression and bitterness in dealing with my husband. This is because I have learned the hard way that I have to act as an eight to stand up to him. "But" this aggressive stance with him is interfering with my normal routine of getting emotional, then listening, and then finding growth. Instead, I end up feeling bitter and more pissed off. Hence, more rage. How to stop this now?

DON'T TRY SO HARD....RELAX

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> > > I've had a major insight into myself lately that I wanted to share- > > I've been using my 3 wing to consort socially - "acting" like the people I'm around. Example: I've been having problems with aggression and bitterness in dealing with my husband. This is because I have learned the hard way that I have to act as an eight to stand up to him. "But" this aggressive stance with him is interfering with my normal routine of getting emotional, then listening, and then finding growth. Instead, I end up feeling bitter and more pissed off. Hence, more rage. How to stop this now? > DON'T TRY SO HARD....RELAX

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