Posted by Perciever on April 27, 1999 at 09:25:23:
In Reply to: Sexual matter posted by Diarmuid on April 27, 1999 at 07:50:38:
> Since I learned to Enneagram, I've conceived it as being Nine "energy types" à la Richard Rohr. To him, a person's type motivation can be sensed by others as an "energy". I'm sure you get that it means the same as "vibes".
> I wonder, how much of sexual attraction is based on pure "personality energy". Is it usual to feel more drawn to somebody once you've found her/his personality?
> Of the two people I'm seeing; a 2 and an 8, there's no doubt that I'm physically more drawn to the 8ish one, though the 2 has the kind of body I've always liked.
> My only explanation is her personality. I've always enjoyed the company of 8ish women slightly more than any other, in friendships and in work.
> In a word; do our favourite OTHER Pers-types also turn us on?
As for energy fields, I don't know, I focus on behaviors, behaviors influence movement, thus energy, etc.
I'm a 6w5 and my preference is ones. 1w9. I'll flat out say I have a low level of trust for the
heart triad, except 2w1. Not to say 3 & 4 arn't attractive physically and even personally. But trust
is important for 6's and trust and deception don't mix.
5, 6,7 are ok. Really though, how many 5 babes are there out there? 6's are real helpful and make me think.
7's I find rather unobtainable.
Never really knew too many 8 women. Nines are ok. Ones are the best.