Posted by Perciever on April 28, 1999 at 09:12:20:
In Reply to: Re: Sexual matter posted by Bibi on April 27, 1999 at 20:22:26:
> > Are you saying us 4's aren't trustworthy!!! LOL.
> > No, really, I think it has also to do with level of healthiness as well. I would hate to write off any number before I got to know who they were, as an individual.
> > But that's just me. :-)
> SUMMER!!! -Finally someone who has GOTTEN THE POINT!!!! -I'm DEAD serious!
> We must stop being so damn type-focused! You go, girl!
> As for my sexual preferenses, or whatever, ANY type will do! (I'm married, though, so my choice is limited...*g*)
> -Bibi
Thats the challenge for fours - to get out of self absorbed me, me, me and unlock the objectivity of the one. Objectivity tells
us this is an enneagram board. Enneagram is about types. Thus we discuss types!
On the other hand, no-one likes being fastly sterotyped. But it happens. Thats why I don't understand fours!
But then most fours don't understand themselves either...theirs is a lifelong search for an identity.