Posted by Hal on April 28, 1999 at 10:17:27:
In Reply to: Re: Sexual matter posted by Summer on April 27, 1999 at 14:12:19:
> Are you saying us 4's aren't trustworthy!!! LOL.
> No, really, I think it has also to do with level of healthiness as well. I would hate to write off any number before I got to know who they were, as an individual.
> But that's just me. :-)
I agree that health has a lot to do with it, but we need to remember that no one is emotionally healthy all the time--everyone gets stressed and has problems to deal with. So we could see it as a question of which type's "bad" traits we could best deal with. Would we like a partner who gets angry, manipulative, deceitful, self-absorbed, cerebral, paranoid, unpredictable, controlling, or lazy when things get rough for them? You could try to say the same thing for which positive qualities you like best, but a healthy individual with any positive qualities can be attractive. Love truly is blind, and I have often found myself attracted to women who are not my "favorite number". There's no rhyme or reason for it, and listing what I like about the person really doesn't explain the attraction. That's about all I can say, because I really don't understand it any more than that.
- Hal -