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Enneagram Main Board Archive Re: 5w4 or 9w1 (anger and negotiating strategies)Posted by Deep Thought on June 27, 1999 at 15:57:10: In Reply to: Re: 5w4 or 9w1 What's the difference? posted by Ronnie on June 27, 1999 at 07:31:22:
How do 5's handle anger? Can an individual be a five and be harmonius to the point that they never get angry? I also see a difference between a nine just going along and later just doing what they want, and avoiding confrontation by going along and over time negotiating a new position. The nine/five style seems very asian to me in that yes probably means maybe and maybe usually means no. I know that's the case with me simply because I don't like directness and always need time to think about things. Maybe this alone defines the nine, but I wonder if this could also be five behavior. Deep thought (one who thinks he may be a five, but identifies with the 9)
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