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Posted by Perciever on June 29, 1999 at 18:04:36:
If you want to know how you can piss off a 3 I tell you this. > You must get other people to laught of the 3, laughter ,laughter, laughter... > That will make the 3 fear you. That is all you need. > Then followup... remember to laught every time the 3 tries
> to say something to you or others when you are there.
> And present oposite argument's, whenever possible. Just make the 3
> sound like an idiot as often as you can. Also reveal the
> hidden motivations of the 3 as often as you can, infront of others.
> To pull of all this you must have what it takes to beat the 3 with
> people around. > I was really pissed at a 3 once, and first started to shout, feeling
> bad in my stummick, then I blacked out totally,
> that is not a recommended way to deal with things... but I had already
> had a bad day, big headache, and the 3 really was the drop that maked me
> loose it. And I could release all my hate towards the bastard.
> That 3 was never on my back after that by the way. If someone think you
> are a bit insane, you certainly got an adventage.
I have a new 3 supervisor at work. I hate the sob. He is 3w2 ISTJ. I've been taking the
stress home with stomach tightness & nightmares about vampires & parasites.
He says do something - with no reason. Like I should obey like a blind little trooper.
Just now he called a co-worker a worthless piece of trash with a smile on his face. Well he pushed me too far saying I need a doctors note for en ergonimic aid. I took what
he said, laid its absurdity bare to his face and stormed out of his office in a rage. It felt good and no stress!
Comparative relations INTJ-ISTJ
When comparative partners are on the same level in a hierarchy, they can coexist quite peacefully.
Once one partner becomes superior to theother, they may have serious disagreements and conflicts.
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