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Posted by Joe on June 30, 1999 at 00:02:28:

In Reply to: Andys tactics posted by Perciever on June 29, 1999 at 18:04:36:

> If you want to know how you can piss off a 3 I tell you this.

> > You must get other people to laught of the 3, laughter ,laughter, laughter...

> > That will make the 3 fear you. That is all you need.

> > Then followup... remember to laught every time the 3 tries
> > to say something to you or others when you are there.
> > And present oposite argument's, whenever possible. Just make the 3
> > sound like an idiot as often as you can. Also reveal the
> > hidden motivations of the 3 as often as you can, infront of others.
> > To pull of all this you must have what it takes to beat the 3 with
> > people around.

> > I was really pissed at a 3 once, and first started to shout, feeling
> > bad in my stummick, then I blacked out totally,
> > that is not a recommended way to deal with things... but I had already
> > had a bad day, big headache, and the 3 really was the drop that maked me
> > loose it. And I could release all my hate towards the bastard.
> > That 3 was never on my back after that by the way. If someone think you
> > are a bit insane, you certainly got an adventage.

>
> I have a new 3 supervisor at work. I hate the sob. He is 3w2 ISTJ. I've been taking the
> stress home with stomach tightness & nightmares about vampires & parasites.

> He says do something - with no reason. Like I should obey like a blind little trooper.
> Just now he called a co-worker a worthless piece of trash with a smile on his face.

> Well he pushed me too far saying I need a doctors note for en ergonimic aid. I took what
> he said, laid its absurdity bare to his face and stormed out of his office in a rage.

> It felt good and no stress!

>
> Comparative relations INTJ-ISTJ

> When comparative partners are on the same level in a hierarchy, they can coexist quite peacefully.
> Once one partner becomes superior to theother, they may have serious disagreements and conflicts.

**Maybe you should try doing what your boss tells you. He may be unprofessional and possibly even a jerk, but you do work at will and presumably you get paid in exchange. Your boss has every right to make requests of you, but you have no right to be subordinate. Fix your attitude and you won't have a problem with stress.

Joe

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> > If you want to know how you can piss off a 3 I tell you this. > > > You must get other people to laught of the 3, laughter ,laughter, laughter... > > > That will make the 3 fear you. That is all you need. > > > Then followup... remember to laught every time the 3 tries > > > to say something to you or others when you are there. > > > And present oposite argument's, whenever possible. Just make the 3 > > > sound like an idiot as often as you can. Also reveal the > > > hidden motivations of the 3 as often as you can, infront of others. > > > To pull of all this you must have what it takes to beat the 3 with > > > people around. > > > I was really pissed at a 3 once, and first started to shout, feeling > > > bad in my stummick, then I blacked out totally, > > > that is not a recommended way to deal with things... but I had already > > > had a bad day, big headache, and the 3 really was the drop that maked me > > > loose it. And I could release all my hate towards the bastard. > > > That 3 was never on my back after that by the way. If someone think you > > > are a bit insane, you certainly got an adventage. > > > > I have a new 3 supervisor at work. I hate the sob. He is 3w2 ISTJ. I've been taking the > > stress home with stomach tightness & nightmares about vampires & parasites. > > He says do something - with no reason. Like I should obey like a blind little trooper. > > Just now he called a co-worker a worthless piece of trash with a smile on his face. > > Well he pushed me too far saying I need a doctors note for en ergonimic aid. I took what > > he said, laid its absurdity bare to his face and stormed out of his office in a rage. > > It felt good and no stress! > > > > Comparative relations INTJ-ISTJ > > When comparative partners are on the same level in a hierarchy, they can coexist quite peacefully. > > Once one partner becomes superior to theother, they may have serious disagreements and conflicts. > **Maybe you should try doing what your boss tells you. He may be unprofessional and possibly even a jerk, but you do work at will and presumably you get paid in exchange. Your boss has every right to make requests of you, but you have no right to be subordinate. Fix your attitude and you won't have a problem with stress. > Joe

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