Posted by Cecil on July 01, 1999 at 15:10:43:
In Reply to: Re: Testimonial: now I are all better posted by Dave on June 29, 1999 at 09:06:01:
> Use 'em or abuse 'em. The Enneagram shows how.
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> Actually, I find the enneagram is a great map on where to go, but not how to get there. That's where most get stuck. It's a great diagnostic tool, but it leaves you to find the way out elsewhere.
I'd say by using it to work against the negatives you don't want and towards the positives you want to get more of. Just be aware and even repeat to yourself the new perspective you want to live when you find yourself believing and thinking your old negative habits.
For example, every time, I feel "longing" of the four, I know I must focus on the present. Whenever I feel tempted to make decisions based on emotions, I remind myself to 'go to one' and make it based on objective principles. It really does work for me, although hard, I recommend it for all.
Cecil