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Re: Are you serious?


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Posted by Cecil on September 19, 1999 at 15:37:34:

In Reply to: Re: Meeting people from the net posted by Tiggy on September 19, 1999 at 00:53:28:

Tiggy:> I think I'm in love with Sam,
Cecil: Are you serious?

Tiggy: but he fears he is too old for me, or perhaps he has the love of his life. Sam - I am older than I act.
Cecil: Are you two talking to each other through e-mail and the e-board?

Tiggy: Save me from the unrequited love of that bugger Jonathan
Cecil: Are you serious here, too?

Tiggy:- or else be my long lost father figure.

Cecil: Are you serious here, too???

RE: 'rescuer': What you seem like you want is a 'rescuer' to rescue you from your problems. Don't you think it's better if you rescue yourself?

RE: 'father figure':
Do you really need a 'father' figure?
I could NEVER understand how ANYone could EVER want that EVER. (Course, in my case, one father once in a lifetime is enough!)

RE: 'romantic figure':
I know I have never dreamed of a romantic-rescuer until only of late, and it really got to me.

I struggle with being torn between:
1)doing my 'own' thing, shich is what I've always done my whole life
2)doing whatever he needs me to do
3)getting him to do what I want to do
4)getting him, period, no matter what it takes
5) saying screw the whole thing, I never needed him or anyone else anyway.

An-Embarrassed-to-Confess-I'm-a-Romantic,-but-heck,-I-know-I-how-hard-and-foolish-I-fell-for-all-of-this-whole-mess-in-the-first-place-anyway,-else- I-wouldn't-be-here-occupying-my-time-with-this-Cecil

You are wasted as an accountant. Become a shrink or a writer or an academic of some sort. You can still do accountancy in your spare time to keep the money up.

> A Romantic Tigster.




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